
1. Tell us about your experience with divorce.
- What was the situation?
- How long were you married when you starting thinking about getting divorced?
- Why did you want to leave?
- How did your spouse feel about your decision?
- How long did it take to make the decision?
- What kept you from leaving sooner?
- Do you wish you had waited?
*2. Expand on your initial thoughts by picking the category your situation fits into — Adultery, Addiction, Abuse, Abandonment, or Angst. Offer as many details as you feel comfortable with.
- Talk about what your life has been like since you got divorced.
- Are you happier?
- How is your spouse doing?
- How are your kids doing?
- Would you divorce again? If so, would you do anything differently?
3. Finally, tell us about your relationship — when it first began.
- What attracted you to your spouse in the first place?
- How long did you court?
- What is your fondest memory of those first years?
- What shifted?
4. Now take a look forward. Do you want to marry again? If so, what lessons will you take with you into your next relationship?
5. Details
Note: We want to protect your privacy. Share your real name, or choose a pseudonym.
- Real Name:
- (Optional) Pseudonym:
- Age:
- Years married:
- Date of your separation:
- Date of your divorce:
- Number of kids (ages):